Moving to France means immersing yourself in a unique art of living, a mix of traditions, conviviality, and sometimes… contradictions! To integrate well, it's best to know a few daily codes – those that bring a smile, surprise, or can sometimes confuse expats.
La bise: an essential social ritual
In France, people often greet each other with one, two, or even three kisses on the cheeks, especially between friends or close colleagues. In the professional world, however, a handshake is preferred. Don't be surprised if not everyone gives everyone a kiss: it depends on the context and the region!
Lunch and coffee breaks, sacred moments
Here, lunchtime is sacred. Forget sandwiches eaten in front of your computer: French people often take a full hour (or even more) for lunch, and adhere to fixed meal times: lunch around noon, dinner around 7:30–8:30 p.m.
The coffee break is also a key moment of the professional day: people exchange ideas, discuss the world, and build connections. These moments are essential for understanding the local rhythm and culture.
The weekend market
On Saturday or Sunday morning, the streets come alive around local markets: fruits, cheeses, flowers, cured meats… It's a true French ritual, both practical and convivial, where people chat with vendors and taste local products.
Strikes: a deeply rooted tradition
Strikes are part of the French landscape. It's a form of civic expression that many French people consider a fundamental right. It may be surprising, but demonstrating and defending one's rights is part of the culture.
Complaining… a national sport
French people have a reputation for complaining often, but it's actually a way to debate and exchange points of view. Passionate discussions, sometimes lively, are part of everyday life and are a way to share opinions, especially on politics or current events.
Second degree humor and irony
Second degree humor is very present in French communication, often based on self-deprecation and irony. Understanding this subtlety helps avoid misunderstandings and fully participate in informal exchanges.
Wine, bread, water, and tipping
Wine is part of French heritage. You don't need to be an oenologist, but knowing how to appreciate a good glass during a meal or aperitif is often seen as a sign of cultural openness.
In France, bread and water are always free in restaurants, and service is included in the price. Leaving a tip is not mandatory but is appreciated when the service has been particularly warm.
Daily cycling
In large cities like Paris, Lyon, or Bordeaux, cycling has become a common mode of transport. A feat we are currently stealing from the Dutch, it is part of modern urban planning and the daily lives of residents.
Fashion and appearance
In France, and particularly in Paris, style matters. Even a casual look is generally neat and well-thought-out. The capital remains a global reference for fashion and elegance, and your appearance can influence first impressions.
Tutoiement and vouvoiement (informal and formal 'you')
In French, the choice between tutoiement and vouvoiement is essential for respecting social codes. "Vous" remains the norm in formal situations or with strangers, while "tu" is reserved for close friends, very familiar colleagues, or younger generations. Observing the context carefully helps avoid awkwardness.
Advice from Sofime Immigration & Relocation
Integrating is primarily about observing, listening, and adapting. Our teams—often expats themselves—will help you understand these cultural subtleties and quickly feel "at home" in France.
